Don't worry about how you might look to another person, just focus on feeling sexy and getting a good photo. Install a dimmer switch in your bedroom and have a shower or something. Remove clutter, get rid of any loud wall hangings, and clear out anything else that doesn't fit the look you want. Tell him no, and if he doesn't accept your decision, he is not a good guy. I generally always focus on boobs.
And always, always, refrain from using the flash.
The Grown-Ass Woman’s Guide to: Actually Sexy Selfie Poses
Also, an angled body tends to look slimmer and more flattering. Thanks for letting us know. Take a few, and only send it if you feel confident. Those you trust today may not be those you trust tomorrow. Not Helpful 12 Helpful And always, always, refrain from using the flash. Not Helpful 14 Helpful